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Find Peace of Mind with Expert Counselling

Our counselling sessions offer personalized support tailored to your unique needs. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, career stress, or relationship issues, I'm here to guide you toward a happier, healthier life.

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I specialize in helping with:

  • Emotional Overwhelm: Understanding hidden emotions and finding a safe space to process them.
  • Grief/Loss: Working through deep feelings of grief to heal.
  • Relationship Issues: Exploring attachment patterns to improve communication and connection in relationships.
  • Career Stagnation: Identifying internal blocks to gain clarity and direction in your career.
  • Low Self-Esteem: Discovering the root causes of feeling inadequate and working to build self-worth.
  • Anxiety/Depression: Addressing unresolved feelings to manage anxiety or depression more effectively.
  • Lack of Focus: Understanding why you may feel unmotivated and working to stay focused in daily life.
  • Life Transitions: Dealing with the emotional impact of big life changes and finding support through the process.
  • Inner Peace/Fulfillment: Exploring inner conflicts to find peace and fulfillment.
  • Negative Thought Patterns: Recognizing and changing long-standing negative thoughts.
  • Emotional Disconnection: Reconnecting with your emotions and building stronger relationships.
  • Personal Growth: Understanding yourself better to foster personal growth.
  • Childhood Trauma: Processing past trauma to heal and move forward.
  • Family Issues: Exploring family dynamics to resolve conflicts and improve relationships.

With over 18 years of experience in psychology and mental health, I’ve been in the trenches, working hands-on with high-performing individuals like you. From teaching psychology to counselling at the National University of Singapore and consulting for some of the world’s leading corporations—I’ve had the privilege of serving people from all walks of life.

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MERRILL

BSc (Psychology)
M(Coun)
PhD Candidate (Psychoanalytic Studies)
Member of Singapore Psychological Society: FM011031D

I don’t just work locally—my clients span the globe, and I’ve had the privilege of working with powerhouse organizations like Lyra Health, Wellington Management, Johnson & Johnson, Unilever, Bank of America, HSBC Bank, JP Morgan, GlaxoSmithKline Pharmaceuticals, Baker McKenzie, and Principal Life Insurance.

My approach is practical, powerful, and laser-focused on getting you results. I combine deep psychological insights with a relentless commitment to your success. Your life is about more than just performance—it’s about creating your story where you get to experience your success and satisfaction so that you may inspire the people that you care about and love.

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TESTIMONIALS

Wilson Low
Wilson Low
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We have been working closely with Merrill and his team on corporate mental wellness talk. Many customers have very positive feedbacks and we appreciate the continuous services & support provided. Recommended to corporates HR team for their staff learning and knowledge. Cheers!:)
Katherine Cai
Katherine Cai
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Merrill shared a session on Conversational Skills at the Workplace recently with my coworkers and it was fantastic! He shared many relevant and useful stratgies such using "pauses" to take control over a conversation which was indeed insightful. Def recommend Flowsophy to any one looking for some refrehing ideas on improving mental health or postive comms at the workplace!
Aarthi Subash
Aarthi Subash
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I had the privilege of being guided through a rough patch in my life. Thoughtful, sincere, open-minded and highly passionate about his work. Not only did a session with Merrill D'Cruz help me gain clarity and deeper understanding of my issues, it made me feel rejuvenated and hopeful for the future.
Adam Chen
Adam Chen
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More than just a listening ear, Merrill is sincere and remembers the little details in our conversations. He is accomplished in his field and has been absolutely pivotal in helping me overcome my issues.
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For Businesses

Are your employees struggling with stress & burnout with high demand and sudden changes?

Do you want your employees to be happy and achieving at work and in life?

I help..

  • companies be seen by employees as thoughtful businesses
  • managers help their people to do their best work
  • create a workplace of productive and satisfied employees

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Be the best version of your future self – let your greatness shine 

We take simple steps, repeatedly so it becomes easy.

STEP 1

Schedule a call

Determine where you’re at ∙ Know how I can help ∙ See if we’re a match

STEP 2

Find your flow

Gain insights & learn new ways ∙ Apply learnings in your world ∙ I’ll be there with you

STEP 3

Fly free & independent

Keep being more productive ∙ Keep feeling more control ∙ Keep doing better work 

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If you continue to dream without taking action, you will continue to wish, wait and wonder… what if?

The world is waiting for you to wake up… and step into your GREATNESS!

WHY WORK WITH ME?

Discover My Approach

[Explore my manifesto] It is a testament to my dedication to your journey. As you read, let your heart guide you. If the words resonate deeply, I invite you to journey together. If not, it’s perfectly fine to part ways here.

If you decide to read on, here’s more about me. 

15+ years coaching & counsellingto help people live with more joy

1000+ clients served & doing well in life

Served major companies & universitiesacross the globe

Masters degree in Counselling—Bachelors degree in psychology

Accredited & member of Singapore Psychological Society

Dozens of certificates to stay educated & current

Developed therapy“Compassion Action—Reimagining Experiences” 

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BLOGS

10 Signs It’s Time to Seek Counselling: A Journey Towards Healing and Peace

In this busy, modern world, it’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of daily life, often neglecting the quiet voice within that calls for stillness, reflection, and care. We must learn to listen deeply to ourselves, to recognize when our hearts are burdened, and our minds heavy. Seeking counseling is an act of profound compassion for oneself—a recognition that we do not have to suffer in isolation. It is a step towards healing, toward uncovering the strength, resilience, and joy that lives within us all.

How Therapy Can Help You Navigate Major Life Transitions

In the journey of life, transitions are inevitable. Whether it’s changing careers, moving to a new city, becoming a parent, or experiencing the loss of a loved one, these moments of upheaval test the core of our being. They challenge our perceptions of self, our relationships, and the world around us. Yet, amidst this turmoil, there lies an opportunity for profound growth and inner peace. Therapy can serve as a compass, guiding us with mindfulness, insight, and understanding through these uncertain times.

Overcoming Anxiety: Practical Tips from a Therapist

Anxiety is like a small bird trapped inside a room, desperately seeking an exit. The more it flutters, the more it becomes disoriented, crashing into walls and windows, exhausted yet unable to find the way out. Many of us are like this bird—trapped in the restless cycle of our thoughts, trying to escape the grip of worry but only finding ourselves more entangled. As a therapist, I have seen countless people overwhelmed by anxiety, each seeking calm, peace, and clarity. Today, I want to offer practical steps to help you not just manage anxiety but embrace it with compassion and curiosity. When we learn to observe the mind gently and approach our fears with understanding, we can transform our experience.

Limited slots available

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Your privacy is our top priority—every session is fully confidential and securely managed, ensuring a safe space for you to share openly.

Here are photos of our counselling space, designed to provide a safe, private, and confidential environment. We are centrally located at 163 Tras Street, with the nearest MRT station being Tanjong Pagar.

FAQs

1. What can I expect during my first counseling session?

  • In our first session, we will explore the underlying thoughts, emotions, and patterns that may influence your current challenges. As a psychodynamic therapist, I focus on understanding the root causes of your issues by delving into both conscious and unconscious processes. This session will also involve setting goals for our work together, and it is an opportunity for you to ask any questions about therapy. You’ll have a safe and supportive space to share your experiences, and together we’ll work toward understanding deeper aspects of your emotional life.

 

2. Is everything discussed in therapy confidential?

  • Yes, everything you share in therapy is strictly confidential. Confidentiality is a cornerstone of our relationship, allowing you to explore your thoughts and emotions freely. The only exceptions to this rule are if there is an immediate risk to your safety or the safety of others, or if there are legal obligations regarding the protection of vulnerable individuals. Outside of these exceptional cases, your privacy is fully protected.

 

3. How long does each counseling session last?

  • Each session lasts 50 minutes. This duration is ideal for our work, allowing us the necessary time to explore and analyze your inner world. The goal is to give you enough space to reflect deeply while maintaining a focused structure.

 

4. How many sessions will I need?

  • The length of therapy can vary greatly depending on your individual circumstances. Psychoanalytical psychodynamic therapy is often a longer-term approach, as it involves exploring deeper, often unconscious patterns that may take time to uncover and address. However, after a few sessions, we will assess your progress and discuss the best course of action based on your needs and goals.

 

5. What types of therapy do you offer?

  • My primary approach is psychoanalytical psychodynamic therapy, which focuses on understanding unconscious influences and early life experiences that shape your current emotional and psychological state. This method helps you gain insight into recurring behaviour patterns and emotional struggles. By exploring these deeper issues, we can work toward lasting change.

 

6. Do you offer online or in-person sessions?

  • Yes, I offer both online and in-person sessions. For online sessions, we use a secure, HIPAA-compliant platform to protect your privacy. Whether you choose to meet in person or online, you will receive the same level of attention and confidentiality.

 

7. Do you accept insurance, and how does payment work?

  • Yes, we accept a range of insurance plans. We also offer self-pay options for those who prefer to pay out-of-pocket. Before your first session, we can verify your insurance benefits and discuss any co-pays or fees. Payment is typically collected before the session is due, and we accept various forms of payment including credit cards, bank transfers, and PayNow. If you have concerns about affordability, feel free to discuss it with us, and we can explore options.

 

8. How do I know if therapy is right for me?

  • Therapy is beneficial for anyone seeking to understand themselves more deeply or struggling with persistent emotional difficulties. If you find yourself repeating the same patterns in relationships, career, or personal life, or experiencing unexplained emotional distress, psychoanalytical therapy can offer insights and lasting solutions. In our initial consultation, we will explore whether this approach is right for you.

 

9. What happens if I need to cancel or reschedule an appointment?

  • Please provide at least 48 hours’ notice if you need to cancel or reschedule. This policy allows me to offer your time slot to another client. Cancellations made with less than 48 hours’ notice or missed appointments will incur a full fee unless it’s an emergency.

 

10. What qualifications do you have?

  • With 18 years of experience working with diverse age groups, I’ve had the privilege of serving clients worldwide. I hold degrees in psychology, a postgraduate degree in counselling, and numerous specialized certifications in psychodynamic therapy. My expertise enables me to address complex emotional and psychological issues effectively. Additionally, I remain committed to ongoing professional development to ensure my clients receive the most up-to-date and effective therapeutic support.