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for Men’s Mental Wellness Aged 25-45:

✔ Carrying the Weight Alone
✔ Grief & Unprocessed Pain
✔ Struggles in Dating & Relationships
✔ Career Pressure & Burnout
✔ Self-Doubt & Low Confidence 
✔ Anxiety & Depression
✔ Lack of Focus & Procrastination 
✔ Struggling With Change
✔ Overthinking & Negative Thought Loops
✔ Feeling Emotionally Disconnected
✔ Healing From a Difficult Childhood
✔ Family Struggles & Boundaries 

 

Specialised Support

for Men’s Mental Wellness Aged 25-45:

✔ Carrying the Weight Alone
✔ Grief & Unprocessed Pain
✔ Struggles in Dating & Relationships
✔ Career Pressure & Burnout
✔ Self-Doubt & Low Confidence 
✔ Anxiety & Depression
✔ Lack of Focus & Procrastination 
✔ Struggling With Change
✔ Overthinking & Negative Thought Loops
✔ Feeling Emotionally Disconnected
✔ Healing From a Difficult Childhood
✔ Family Struggles & Boundaries 


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If any of these resonate,

know that you don’t have to figure it out alone. 

Let’s work through these challenges together so you can move forward with clarity, confidence, and purpose.

Get to Know Merrill

Merrill D'Cruz

BSc (Psychology)
M(Coun)
Member of Singapore Psychological Society: FM011031D31D

With over 20 years of experience in psychology and mental health, I’ve been in the trenches, working hands-on with high-performing individuals like you. From teaching psychology to counselling at the National University of Singapore and consulting for some of the world’s leading corporations—I’ve had the privilege of serving people from all walks of life.

I don’t just work locally—my clients span the globe, and I’ve had the privilege of working with powerhouse organizations like Lyra Health, Wellington Management, Johnson & Johnson, Unilever, Bank of America, HSBC Bank, JP Morgan, GlaxoSmithKline Pharmaceuticals, Baker McKenzie, and Principal Life Insurance.

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My approach is practical, powerful, and laser-focused on getting you results. I combine deep psychological insights with a relentless commitment to your success. Your life is about more than just performance—it’s about creating your story where you get to experience your success and satisfaction so that you may inspire the people that you care about and love.

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Are your employees struggling with stress & burnout with high demand and sudden changes? Do you want your employees to be happy and achieving at work and in life?

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  • companies be seen by employees as thoughtful businesses
  • managers help their people to do their best work
  • create a workplace of productive and satisfied employees

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Be the best version of your future self – let your greatness shine 

We take simple steps, repeatedly so it becomes easy.

STEP 1

Schedule a call

Determine where you’re at ∙ Know how I can help ∙ See if we’re a match

STEP 2

Find your flow

Gain insights & learn new ways ∙ Apply learnings in your world ∙ I’ll be there with you

STEP 3

Fly free & independent

Keep being more productive ∙ Keep feeling more control ∙ Keep doing better work 

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If you continue to dream without taking action, you will continue to wish, wait and wonder… what if?

The world is waiting for you to wake up… and step into your GREATNESS!

Why Work With Me?

Discover My Approach

[Explore my manifesto] It is a testament to my dedication to your journey. As you read, let your heart guide you. If the words resonate deeply, I invite you to journey together. If not, it’s perfectly fine to part ways here.

If you decide to read on, here’s more about me. 

Member of Singapore Psychological Society: FM011031D31D

20 years coaching & counsellingto help people live with more joy

1,000+ clients served & doing well in life

Served major companies & universitiesacross the globe

Masters degree in Counselling—Bachelors degree in psychology

Accredited & member of Singapore Psychological Society

Dozens of certificates to stay educated & current

Developed therapy“Compassion Action—Reimagining Experiences” 

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Ditch The Worry Habit

From Stress to Calm for Men

Ditch the Worry Habit: From Stress to Calm for Men is designed specifically for men ready to break free from the conditioned cycle of worry and embrace a more solution-focused life. Grounded in practical, research-based strategies and a compassionate understanding of the modern man’s challenges, this guide offers a clear and accessible roadmap for overcoming anxiety and reclaiming control.

If you’re ready to challenge old patterns, step into your full potential, and build a life defined by strength and authenticity, this workbook is your starting point. Embrace the opportunity to create meaningful change—one small step at a time.

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10 Signs It’s Time to Seek Counselling: A Journey Towards Healing and Peace

In this busy, modern world, it’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of daily life, often neglecting the quiet voice within that calls for stillness, reflection, and care. We must learn to listen deeply to ourselves, to recognize when our hearts are burdened, and our minds heavy. Seeking counseling is an act of profound compassion for oneself—a recognition that we do not have to suffer in isolation. It is a step towards healing, toward uncovering the strength, resilience, and joy that lives within us all.

How Therapy Can Help You Navigate Major Life Transitions

In the journey of life, transitions are inevitable. Whether it’s changing careers, moving to a new city, becoming a parent, or experiencing the loss of a loved one, these moments of upheaval test the core of our being. They challenge our perceptions of self, our relationships, and the world around us. Yet, amidst this turmoil, there lies an opportunity for profound growth and inner peace. Therapy can serve as a compass, guiding us with mindfulness, insight, and understanding through these uncertain times.

Overcoming Anxiety: Practical Tips from a Therapist

Anxiety is like a small bird trapped inside a room, desperately seeking an exit. The more it flutters, the more it becomes disoriented, crashing into walls and windows, exhausted yet unable to find the way out. Many of us are like this bird—trapped in the restless cycle of our thoughts, trying to escape the grip of worry but only finding ourselves more entangled. As a therapist, I have seen countless people overwhelmed by anxiety, each seeking calm, peace, and clarity. Today, I want to offer practical steps to help you not just manage anxiety but embrace it with compassion and curiosity. When we learn to observe the mind gently and approach our fears with understanding, we can transform our experience.

Limited slots available

Your privacy is our top priority—every session is fully confidential and securely managed, ensuring a safe space for you to share openly.

Here are photos of our counselling space, designed to provide a safe, private, and confidential environment. We are centrally located at 163 Tras Street, with the nearest MRT station being Tanjong Pagar.

FAQs

Who is Merrill?
  • Merrill has 20 years of experience both academic and clinical, in psychology & counseling.
  • Author of Ditch Your Worry Habit – from Stress to Calm for Men.
  • LinkedIn Top Voice for Mindfulness, Leadership & Workplace Mental Health Issues.
Who does Merrill work with?
  • Specializes in men aged 25-40 (but works with others too).
  • Experience with clients aged 14-65, both locally in Singapore & internationally.
Is this science-based?

Yes! Flowsophy is based on the psychology of peak performance. Rooted in compassion & honesty to help you achieve your best

Online or in-person?

Sessions available online or in-person at 163 Tras Street (nearest Tanjong Pagar MRT).

Do you accept insurance, and how does payment work?

Yes, we accept a range of insurance plans. We also offer self-pay options for those who prefer to pay out-of-pocket. Before your first session, we can verify your insurance benefits and discuss any co-pays or fees. Payment is typically collected before the session is due, and we accept various forms of payment including credit cards, bank transfers, and PayNow. If you have concerns about affordability, feel free to discuss it with us, and we can explore options.

What happens if I need to cancel or reschedule an appointment?

Please provide at least 48 hours’ notice if you need to cancel or reschedule. This policy allows me to offer your time slot to another client. Cancellations made with less than 48 hours’ notice or missed appointments will incur a full fee unless it’s an emergency.